Your relationship is old, it's a little worn out due to routine and time and you want to rescue the romance and spice up the relationship for two?
Here are some tips on how to activate your relationship:
- A very important point – and we end up forgetting to do it because of the time of the relationship – is to maintain the habit of showing affection, always kissing and hugging, especially when we greet each other, and preferably looking into each other's eyes.
- Another nice thing is to praise your partner often, if you can every day. Tell them how beautiful you are, thank them for something they have done for you…
- Schedule yourself to, at least once a week, have a moment together, when you will dedicate yourself to doing something you both enjoy. It could be watching a series on TV, playing a game, cooking together or drinking wine.
- At this time, cell phones are prohibited!
- If you have children, try to do this after the children are asleep... If they sleep late, how about changing the routine a little and at least one night a week setting an earlier time?!
- In order for it to become a habit – and you start to feel that it is essential for everyday life – it is important to always schedule the same day and time of the week. And commit!
- I love this tip: adopt the habit of sleeping naked or with strategic pieces that allow body contact. It has been proven that contact between bodies stimulates libido!
Another way to stimulate the relationship is to strengthen the relationship area of ​​the couple's bedroom. Here are some more tips:
- If your bed is a king size bed, I suggest you replace it with a queen or traditional one. Remember the libido story? So I ask: how are you and your partner going to find each other at night in such a big bed?
- It's not worth using children as an excuse! After all, for the health of the family, it is important that children sleep in their beds!
- Talking more specifically about the decoration, prefer to have everything in the room in pairs. For example: two bedside tables, two pillows, two paintings…
- Another suggestion is to place objects in the room that represent love in some way: it can be a painting, an ornament, candles…
- Preferably, place this object in the dorm's relationship area, which is at the back of the room, on the right, with reference to the entrance door.
- Put some pink detail in the space - it can be a bedspread, pillows, ornaments, picture frames... Pink is the color of love and it's cool to use it to activate the energy of the relationship!
- You can also put some decoration object in a shade of red – which is the color of passion… Just avoid painting the walls of the rooms in that tone, as the aim is to activate the couple's complicity and not just nights of passion.
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So, how about the tips?
I'm Karis Brito, Holistic Consultant for Organization and Interiors and my goal is to provide well-being to people who want to make their home a refuge or who don't feel comfortable in their own home or who feel that life is not moving forward. I offer solutions for harmonizing, decorating, organizing and aromatizing the house.
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