The arduous task of dating

    There was a time when it took a long time to find a boyfriend or girlfriend. It all started with a flirtation, a slight approach of looks complete with smiles, a lowering of the heads showing modesty or a body expression showing secrets and mystery and, sometimes, a wink for the most daring ones.

    Time passed, and the telephone arrived, giving those who had it at the time a boosting tool in long-distance communications.


    With a greater leap in time, came the ballads, bars, soirees and, consequently, the occasional meetings that allowed people to get to know each other without a schedule commitment, claiming that the night was a child. Love then seemed to be free from commitments, and the expressions colored friendship, staying, enjoying and having fun appeared as variants of dating.


    But the task of dating is very intricate. If it is a period in which the couples get to know each other, it is also the most complex in the trajectory of the relationship for two, because the commitment does not exist, and, from one moment to the next, the bond can be broken, because, depending on the moment and place where the two met, the attraction felt initially may fade in a brief moment.

    The arduous task of dating
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    We finally arrived in the present day, in which the task of dating has become more arduous. Today, with the pandemic, faces are covered and it is necessary to try to read in the eyes the message that each one wants to say. Of course, the mask also provides a certain mystery and charm for those who see romanticism in everything, but it also hides the facial expression, and the smile is affected by the contraction of the cheekbone that flexes the eyes.



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    If in the past we had the telephone, today we have WhatsApp, Telegram, Skype, Facebook and so many other channels for lovers to communicate, and with a great advantage, which is the look in real time.

    But, if in the midst of the pandemic it is difficult to achieve the full facial look, let us not worry, because the spirits that we are certainly meet and recognize each other in the midst of the crowds, as they identify themselves by the energy, by the aura that exudes from their psychosphere. . After all, it is the spirit that loves, not the material body. And certainly, when this connection happens, there is a passionate symbiosis, inexplicable to feelings. And true love happens.



    Dating is exchanging a unique energy. Happy valentines week.

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