Self esteem is powerful, just like you! Then that question can arise: “But, look, I don't think I have any power”, and that's where the explanation for failure lies. How can you be a person with power if you believe you can't have it?
Having self-love is one of the best ways for everything to start working out. And, of course, depending on how your life is going, his need can knock on your door at any time. That way, understand that at some point you will have to learn about self-esteem to live as you want.
Self-esteem is directly linked to loving yourself. If you can't love what you do and who you are, you won't be able to love anyone or work with what you love most. Shall we talk more about this?
What is self-esteem?
We see people talking all the time about self-esteem, but do they know the true meaning of this word of power? On the other hand, many of them know but do not practice their concept. So what does that word actually mean?
SATISFACTION! This is the other word that best characterizes this quality. A person who has self-esteem is one who has confidence in himself and who knows his worth. We are not referring to money, but to the act of knowing what is worthy in your life or not, with extreme decision. That's it and that's it!
You might be complaining right now about how selfish that sounds! But, you see, selfishness is giving importance to yourself and belittling other people, and we're not talking about belittling anyone.
Therefore, for self-esteem to be firm in your life, you need to understand that respect for others is important. Most people who have beautiful self-esteem have great respect for themselves and for other people.
Contrary to this quality, there is low self-esteem. And now I ask you: in which pattern are you positioned? Let's try to unravel this mystery!
What is low self-esteem?
First, people who have good self-esteem behave completely differently from those who live with low self-esteem. See this in the same situation, but said by two different people:
“I went there, did everything they asked me to do and it all worked out. I really am a successful professional!”
“I went there, did everything they asked me to do and it all worked out. But couldn't I have been better?
We have here, clearly, a person who trusts himself and one who questions himself all the time. Isn't it logical to think that if she went there, she did everything they asked and everything turned out fine?
People with low self-esteem tend to not only belittle other people, but also themselves. This is great cruelty! Another question I have for you is: if you can be so cruel to yourself, how do you think you act to other people?
Maybe you never thought of it that way, and now, yes, it could be that you are being selfish! So how about raising your self-esteem right now?
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how to increase self esteem
If you want to be successful in your life, that is, if you want to have prosperity in all areas, start developing self-esteem. But how can you start this personal work? The answer is simple: eliminating beliefs that don't belong to you, giving value to oneself, respecting the values of others, etc.
A lot can and needs to be done to get out of the victim pattern and, consequently, become the owner of your own life of abundance. The first one is trust yourself! Start your days by looking in the mirror and affirming everything you want to be. Start now!
Our brain creates many patterns that dictate our behavior, so self-esteem will come into your life when you create a new behavior and start following it. Tell yourself every day that you are a success, that your beauty is amazing, that you are capable of doing anything you want, etc.
In sequence, start listening more and talking less, that is, practice self-observation! What are your default thoughts unconsciously stating to you? Understand that they dictate your life. When an automatic thought comes that you're not going to get something, change it. You have that power!
For these patterns to be completely broken, it is also necessary to eliminate some beliefs. So review yours, check which ones were built by you and which ones were placed in your life.
We have the erroneous nature of following what we have been taught, but we should really follow what we learn from life. Nothing is more constructive than making mistakes, learning and, with learning, creating our own concepts.
Here's a great message that can help you get out of the victim pattern and get in tune with self-love. In this way, you will be bringing self-esteem to your reality, and with it you will be able to fulfill your biggest dreams.
A message of self-esteem for you
Being confident is having the power to build everything you want. Self-confidence is a gift from the universe and we were all born to be all good! If I wake up saying I have power, I will have it. But if when I wake up I say I'm a failure, I will be this one.
When I connect my mind to the universe, to God, I am always looking for something good and I will have it. But when I forget that I am part of everything, I will be nothing. Awaken the self-love that exists within you, because it is there and just needs to be accessed. By giving permission for him to come into the physical world, ALL AROUND YOU will also become love.
Having self-esteem goes beyond being beautiful, after all, beauty is completely relative. When you love yourself, you can love other people, your work, your plants, your breakfast today, etc. When you have this beautiful feeling for everything, the universe will make a point of bringing all this redoubled to your life.
Because having self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence, etc. you understand that you deserve the best in the world!
