Perhaps our car needs and likes to remain alone on the road for a certain time of the trip. I believe we all need to learn to drive just enjoying the scenery on the road, feeling that breeze on our face, without a single sound, just admiring and respecting the signs.
It may be that the driver skidded on a winding curve and damaged the bodywork a little, broke the light and even injured himself. But nothing that can't be fixed and cured. A few scratches tell incredible adventures. And it sure makes this car and its driver unique.
It may also be that this car needs a stop to change tires, fill up or simply rest the engine. However, be careful with time. It can just rest the gears to proceed serenely or cool too much, lock up and cause irreversible damage to the engine. But if your car is on dual carriageways, pay attention to what the road has in store for you. Pay attention to the route and its signage.
Many cars will cross your path, some will overtake you, others will follow you for a while and even rest with you, some will hitchhike and a few will share driving this car with you. This is the best trip, regardless of the road. Let me drive them with you. Don't be the only one to walk the path. The other driver also needs training and rest. Retribution and joint driving is still the best fuel for love.
I, although I am quite spiritual, have not yet raised my soul to the point where I do not need carnal love. So I think unrequited love can be a great form of punishment. I believe in distributing love, whoever it is, but when you are in a relationship you need to have the attention, affection and respect that you give. Otherwise, it seems like a feeling for martyrs!
Imagine having a friend that you are always listening to, advising and celebrating your glories, but who can never listen, suffer or celebrate for you? What about a couple where the other is always understanding, tolerating, accepting, waiting? Will it really be a beneficial partnership?
I know it's better to raise pink elephants than expectations, but that's part of it! And not always the failure and lack of love is in you, in your vision. Sometimes the other is really not ready for that experience or just not ready for you and your love.
It's not the old story that someone will complete you, because we already understand that this doesn't exist, but we understand that maybe, at that moment, that person and / or experience does not suit us and the experiences we want. So we need to know when to lovingly withdraw from a relationship that doesn't honor us. It's not that you stop loving, you're just going to love from a distance, in a new way, because your time to receive that experience may have run out. If a love situation doesn't make you comfortable, it's better to transmute it and give the parties a chance to be lovingly happy in another way. It's letting go of being a martyr and using the power in you to move forward. It's letting go to evolve. Evolution implies choices and each choice brings a renunciation.
However, if you are afraid or guilty, you can find yourself in an embarrassing situation, in which you are in a condition of not receiving what you give out. This is a major mistake. It's lack of love for yourself, and those who don't love themselves, truly don't love the other, they just have a need to live that experience.
Therefore, know that if you love alone, perhaps it is better to keep the story in your heart and move on with your life, because whoever has so much love that he does not need or want retribution, must continue to distribute it to everyone, without exception.
