One day I woke up thinking about perfect love and what it can represent in our existence. What is perfect love for you? Are you already living perfect love or are you still on a relentless search for it? Have you ever lived the perfect love in your life? And more: do you allow yourself to live perfect love?
But what is perfect or perfection? How does this fit into the concept of love?
Once, in a popular meeting, I received a person who was looking for perfect love and came to me to manifest it through a soulmate (understand: we have several soulmates). The person arrived, sat down opposite me and took a paper out of his pocket. A bond sheet, handwritten, filled with three columns of traits her soulmate should have. Did you read well? Three columns. There must have been more than 100 characteristics she was looking for in her perfect love.
I looked at the list, gave a slight smile and asked her:
– Do you have all these characteristics?
She got scared and said that she had followed the guidance of the previous service and made the list to manifest her soul mate.
Me: Don't you think this person who has all these characteristics on your list won't get someone who also has them? Understand: you are looking for the perfect prince, but what about you, are you the perfect princess?
She fell silent and lowered her head. She thought and said:
- But I just wanted to attract my soulmate!
That is, most of the characteristics on her list were actually nothing more than reflections of a lack of self-confidence, self-esteem and self-esteem. She sought to resolve her emotional issues based only on the other, seeking everything outside of herself. It doesn't work like that, because that's not personal evolution, and we're here to learn to evolve from the inside, not the outside.
That person was looking for perfect love outside of himself, but in fact that perfect love was the pure expression of his suffering and victimizing ego, which was dominating the game of life. I repeat: it doesn't work that way. It will never work!
Perfect love is already within us and begins with self-love.
We are the purest expression of the greatest love there is: that of the Creator. We are already made in his image, we are pure perfect imperfection, but we need to find it within ourselves. This begins when we look within, when we expand our consciousness inward and face our beliefs and convictions with love, seeking to understand their motives and understanding all the learning involved, releasing these bonds in our lives and truly embracing unconditional love.
This is perfect love: unconditional love, not conditional, with lists and restrictions. This is our ego seeking support and strength outside of us, creating mechanisms of victimhood, suffering and domination. This is not Love.
As I have already explained, it begins within us, as a reflection of the release of negative beliefs, such as anger, resentment, rejection, remorse, guilt and everything else that comes together in this package that I understand to be the Matrix itself that exists within each one. of us.
Nothing is in the other. Everything is on us! God is not outside, but inside us and the whole universe, just waiting for us to wake up to this new and true reality, waiting for us to really free ourselves from these subconscious bonds and that, through our free will, we come to allow ourselves to be loved.
You may also like
- Find out where to find your true love
- Understand what platonic love is and how it manifests itself
- Know what is the essence of true love
Understand: we are already the perfect love. We always were and always will be, but we need to find it within us. For me, that is the great experience in this lifetime: experiencing true perfect love.
May your life be one of pure perfect love, or at least an inner search for it. You deserve this as much as all living beings: to be loved deeply and to love truly.
Namaste!
