One of the forms of domination and oppression that has always dominated the world, and unfortunately has still, in the XNUMXst century, dominated until today, is the manipulation of one over the other. Behind every idea of ​​superimposing on a person, on an ideology, on a thought, on someone's choices and preferences, there will always be an interest in establishing oneself.
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Many people spend their lives trying to fit into certain patterns, to fit into a certain “shape”, to live up to the expectations of others. And they do this, often out of lack, out of affective and emotional dependence, because they want to feel adequate. And in the eagerness to feel a little happier and more fulfilled, they stop being themselves. And with that, they are no longer happy. Seeking to feel better through the “ways” of others is a tremendous illusion! As I said earlier, all those who make a point of handing over a form for someone to enter it, have a self-interest.
So why spend your life living up to other people's expectations? Trying to please so that the other feels good? This is mistreating yourself.
On all sides we can see some people trying to implant their mental models in others. It is not difficult to find people trying to implant their ideals, ideologies, choices, preferences, tastes, religion, political options and so on, over others. This is insane! We are a world of diversities and differences. Wanting to standardize is, at the very least, a lunatic attitude. No one is equal to anyone. We're unique! And that is exactly what makes the Universe beautiful!
Be you completely! And those right people will appear in your life!
As long as you try to fit into the ideals of others, you will attract the wrong people, the wrong job, the relationships that have nothing to do with you! When you allow yourself to simply be you, all those who are not ideal for your life will leave. Only those who have affinity and connectivity with you will remain! That's the law of attraction.
And so that you can truly live the life you came here on this planet, use and abuse self-knowledge! He will help you to strengthen yourself.
"Who truly knows himself, does not weaken in the face of the ignorance and imbecility of others".
Herica Rodrigues
