Hello friends, it's a pleasure to be here with you again! Today I'm going to talk a little about the influence of parents on children's illnesses.
I was doing some research in some books about a certain disease, to try to identify the meaning of it and to be able to better help a patient and another child I know. I'm Cristina Cairo's number 1 fan and I have three books from her on body language, which I quote at the end of the article. Here I find not only this disease but also something that caught my attention, a chapter called “the psychological significance of illness in children”. I read it all and became more and more impressed with the fact that nothing in the universe is by chance and how connected we are to each other.
The chapter is sensational, it is in volume 2 and shows how parents influence the physical and psychological health of their children. It is interesting to realize that the child is connected to the mother and to her emotions until the age of 7 and then, from 7 to 14 years of age, connects to the father.
Unconsciously, the child absorbs from the parents all their psychic suffering, their deepest and secret thoughts, their behaviors, which transform the lives of these children regardless of what they bring in their genetics.
If the parents are not psychically balanced, their children will be open to the most diverse somatizations, which can be treated with the treatment of these paternal emotions.
Children can even mimic their parents' physical illness, a clear and common way we see this connection between them. And Cristina Cairo makes it very clear “Your children need your inner peace to live. They feel hate when you parents are hating, and they feel love when you are in love.”. And she says that if every parent observes themselves, looking with courage within themselves will be able to identify which feeling, emotion, thought or behavior of theirs is negatively influencing their child.
Life is full of opportunities. Guilt serves no purpose other than to promote repentance and move on. Guilt brings physical and psychological ailments of the worst you can imagine and impedes your spiritual growth. What is important here is to know the influence of parents in their children's lives and start the change. Start looking at yourself, loving yourself, accepting yourself and fighting for your goals, for what makes you happy. Free yourself from everything that is not pleasant, face it because you will have nothing to lose, only to gain.
The physical and mental health of your children depends on your life being balanced, love being first and also your happiness, which can only be achieved with self-knowledge, courage, and the certainty that God is in charge, holding your hand. and waiting for your attitude to bless you with true peace, which is inner peace.
A kiss in the heart of all and until next time!
- Cristina Cairo books:
Volume 1- Body language: learn to listen to your body for healthy living
Volume 2- Body language: beauty and health
Volume 3- Body language: healing through love
