I know people who literally almost died at the hands of these types. The luck was that, in the last time, their perception took a leap in the name of life and they finally managed to turn around, getting out of this terrible trap.
At the beginning of contacts with these types, everything is flowers and all the joy in the world is magically offered. Apparently, even people with a back foot — but who, for obscure reasons, still remain in the relationship — give the silent hint that, at some point, they will fully open the guards of their defenses. And, as they continue in the relationship, for the predator, sometimes, the game gets even more fun. Too strategists and patient to the extreme, it is on these occasions that they quietly weave their webs of attack and soul kidnapping. For each victim, a new script with certain purpose is being woven and, as if in a vampire universe, the climax only happens when the fatal bite is finally performed.
The good news for victims and incomprehensible for such predators is that they are increasingly being discovered and that their maneuvers are not even that powerful when you have full clarity of who they are and how they work. Victims need to be reminded that if someone wants to destroy their energy and life, it is because the real threat lies in their strength and not the other way around — a resolute act of this now almost macabre play. Who are they and how do they work? I divide it into two categories, but certainly these same categories are subdivided in their infinite nuances that have to do with what is unique in each one: there are the Perverse Narcissists and these, as much harm as they can do to their victims, are still less worse. than psychopaths. However, it is good to know that both are extremely dangerous and can lead their prey to both death itself and psychic death.
Os Narcissiststhey absolutely harm their chosen victims because they deliberately want to harm them; they are just selfish by nature because everything has to revolve around them to satisfy their desires. They have very little or almost no support for frustrations. Everything has to be in the service of uplifting them and anything that shines out of them should immediately be eliminated. They function as true myths in the service of themselves, in an idealization of something that will never be fully achieved. With that, they can be very bad when they need to destroy anyone around them that they suspect to look or be more in evidence than themselves. This makes them appear competitive and often aggressive, even though the structural background is not that.
The psychopaths they target the destruction of their chosen victims, a psychic or even physical death, depending on the type of psychopath. These know exactly how society works; Perverse Narcissists also know, which is sometimes confusing and because of this it is difficult for both types to get caught up in their wiles. On the other hand, Psychopaths are often confused with Perverse Narcissists because they use their seductive clothes to achieve their goals; in these, however, what reigns is the pleasure of defeating their chosen victims, driving them to madness, death or suicide. What equates these types is the non-connection with feelings, the non-conception that the other exists and can suffer.
These types are more among us than we can imagine, therefore, adding to your knowledge now expanded with the lucidity that you have already acquired about yourself in this regard, never trivialize situations that are uncomfortable for you. If you bump into something that causes the slightest emotional noise, even if veiled, the command order is to change your posture and attitude towards what you see, hear and feel, leaving the circuit immediately. Your duty to yourself is to protect your own life and on these occasions it will ultimately be at stake because from the first contact you are already a chosen target.
Do not doubt: evil exists.
Even if it's a little conversation that sounds strange to you, whether it's because of excessive benevolence or conversations that you doubt the veracity of, the red light must be triggered. Set serious limits and, under no circumstances, never fall into enchantment and seek to be accepted by such types. The more awake, the better!
