People have a strange habit of thinking they know what's best for you or yours. It is common. It is a trait of human nature; a mental calculation between what they observe in you and what they have experienced negative in their own life. The result of this equation can be meddling, retaliation, mistrust or a sideways look. But what is necessary to understand, above all, is this: none of this really matters. Then send it to space.
Sending to space is a two-way metaphor. It can be in the sense of turning your face away from all the little annoyances that come to you or, if you are in a much more empathic vibration, it is the act of surrendering all energy contrary to your beliefs and bets in the hands of the Universe. It is emanating light, not expecting light in return and letting time adjust deficits. Particularly, this has been my daily choice. Often, the desire to counter with insults is great. It's hard not to embrace my strong genius and already ask: "So, uncle, do you pay my bills?" But the truth is that the psychic load dispensed in this process is so much higher than accepting to evolve, that in the end the one who would end up bearing the interest of the conflict would be me. And worse: the uncle would still not pay my bills. Right?
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Of course, that doesn't mean not having a more reactive stance.
Or accept being silent and exempt yourself from going to fight. It's just that we need to know how to choose our battles, yes. Saving yourself is smart and divine.
In the illustrative photo, my daughter and I were at the end of the meditation and prayer. It was a beautiful, liberating experience that brought us peace. However, there are those who think that meditation is not the right way to connect with the sacred. There are those who think that stones are not physical expressions of God on Earth. There are those who think that children are not prepared to meditate. And so it goes. There will always be an objection. However, the only one who knows your nature and its fittings is you. Only those who know how much you fought to be who you are today, or if you have children, how much you fight to educate and offer the best path for this other being, is also you.
So relax, breathe and send it to space. If you're even trying, it's okay. ⠀
Yup. It's OK. ⠀
