Hello, friends of Eu sem Fronteiras!
It is with joy that I write again here. Let's talk today about what makes us sick, and our difficulty in leaving it all and being happy.
Many times, in our life, we go through moments of unhappiness, problems, disappointments, both with others and with ourselves. Of course, to free yourself from all this, it takes a lot of self-knowledge, self-love and love for others, and this process is not easy.
In some situations, we can even realize how much we are sabotaging ourselves, but we end up giving strength to the negative and clinging to what takes us down and back.
There are several reasons and each one deep inside knows where they have to change. The problem is that when memories are so deeply rooted in our being, repressed, we cannot remember or free ourselves from them. That's why therapy work is important.
A self-sabotage it has a lot to do with guilt, conscious or unconscious. We punish ourselves for things we can't even imagine, we impede our process of evolution by facts and attitudes that happened in the past. He arrives! We don't have to carry any guilt, we have to learn from mistakes, repent and move on, and not stay with the whip of pain and suffering.
We are all imperfect, don't think it's different from that! You make mistakes, I make mistakes, he makes mistakes, she makes mistakes, everyone makes mistakes. We live on mistakes and successes, we learn sometimes in love, sometimes in pain, but we can only go forward. We can only look forward. What happened is gone and there's no going back.
We also punish ourselves for what we are conscious of, we punish ourselves for a feeling, for a desire, for a need to live different from what parents and society expect of us. And we wasted time! Each one is solely and exclusively responsible for their victory and evolution.
No more being afraid of everything and everyone, don't be afraid to leave behind what hurts you. Trust in yourself, in life and in God. Trust that everything is ok and that you have never been and never will be alone.
Let go of the accommodation, the financial and emotional gains of being in relationships and situations that don't complete you, because they are external and not internal, because they are false. The only person who can make you happy is yourself, while waiting for it to come from outside will suffer, and a lot.
Love starts from the inside out, love can only start with itself, and then spread throughout the world. Love yourself! Cherish yourself! Don't let anything or anyone stop you from conquering your dreams, as long as you have love in your goal. Don't let unspoken words, lost loves, illness or anything else get in the way of your inner light, peace of mind and life.
Smile and trust! Your path is for the good, but the best can only be done by you.
Take a step, believe and you will see how wonderful it is to take control of your life and be happy.
A big kiss to all and until next time!
