We often don't realize it, but a simple way to ruin our day is to complain. That simple. You might think that the situation that generated the complaint is what ruined your day, but it doesn't. Our reaction to situations will define how we will feel.
We can place great value on a cross-eyed look or a malicious word directed at us. We can complain about things that don't work, objects that break, situations, people.
Nobody is 100% perfect, things don't turn out 100% right 100% of the time and there's no way for people to please us 100% of the time we live with them or vice versa. Therefore, we will always have reasons to complain or be dissatisfied!
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Complaining is an option and can become a lifestyle! You can, in addition to ruining your day, ruin your life, if you prefer. Believe me, looking at the dark side of everything, criticizing, judging everything and everyone can make you an eternally dissatisfied person. Stop wanting to control events; stop trying to control others. Yes, maybe they won't act as you would like them to act and that's okay.
Remember, we are all evolving and we all have so-called free will. It is important to respect other people's free will, even if from our point of view they are "wrong". Let go, relax, accept. And understand once and for all, your life can become great or bad, it depends exclusively on you, your choices, your reactions, your thoughts, your energy, your vibration.
Focus on maintaining good relationships, good exchanges, good conversations; focus on giving, on sharing, on sharing, on helping; and avoid dwelling on error, failure, problems, or illness.
Thank you more, love more, rejoice more. Change the focus, change the lens, look for the bright side and instead of ruining your day, save your day, save your health and save your life!
