And if you are also in this fight, listen to me, please: Nobody changes anyone! The attitudes of the other can only be transformed by the person's own will and effort.
Human beings only promote changes in their own attitudes for only one reason: because they feel uncomfortable. In this way, when there is real love, the unhappiness and sadness of the loved one generate an inconvenience capable of producing great transformations. However, such a transformation only occurs when there is real love.
So, as long as the situation is comfortable, everything will remain the same. In tranquility and comfort, transformations never occur.
At the same time, beware of lame excuses: People who say they are not well, but do not seek help, do not accept support and do nothing to improve their condition, are fooling you so they do not have to step out of their comfort zone and assume responsibility for their acts and omissions. They are like disobedient and spoiled children who have learned to cry to escape the scolding.
So, if the person who is with you doesn't bother, doesn't care about your pain, in order to seek a change in their attitudes, that person doesn't deserve your effort, your tears and your company.
Don't be fooled, love is made of attitudes and not words.
