everybody knows that there are no perfect people. But, at some point in our life, we start to wonder why we don't have perfect hair, why are we so anxious, why don't we have the "ideal" body, why don't we find someone nice to share our life with, etc.
But for all of this to come to fruition, these ideas must be abandoned. Focus more on your strengths rather than your flaws.
The first tip for things to happen in your life It's learning from your weaknesses. When you play the victim, nothing happens other than being pretty. If you don't take responsibility for your actions yourself, how can you grow?
Love yourself. For that, you need to start recognizing your flaws. If you learn to love yourself, you will easily receive love back.
Another important tip is to begin to understand that letting go is a process. In time, you will understand that there is no pain in love, only connection. Time heals everything. Thus, things that have hurt or hurt you before are gradually pushed aside, including negative perceptions of your own self.
If you don't know which way to go, keep in mind that you're not the only person who goes through this. Appreciate what you have.
Never, under any circumstances, compare your journey with the people around you. Each person has their own level of awareness and understanding., and only you can truly understand the contradictions, complexities and secrets of your world. Realize that the only person you should compare yourself to is who you were yesterday and who you have become today.
No mistake you've made is capable of reducing you as a person.Just like being overly anxious, having your heart broken, or whatever problem you may have faced doesn't make you any worse.
You are who you are, including your flaws. Things happen the way you are able to react and advances in the way she treats herself. Therefore, accept your weaknesses and value your qualities, only then will you be able to walk a path full of victories.
Text written by Flávia Faria from the Eu Sem Fronteiras Team
